This chapter deals with the things we believe and how we often come to those beliefs.

Questions for deeper interaction:

1. Of the four lenses, which one do you tend to focus on the most?
2. Of the four lenses, which one does your spouse tend to focus on the most?
3. What kind of expectations do you have about other people? Are they typically good or bad expectations?
4. What kind of culture did your family and community have when you were growing up?
5. What kind of culture are you aspiring toward?
6. What event or experiences have you and your spouse lived through that you interpret differently? How has that effected your relationship?