This chapter covers our values. It explains how our expectations can often run unchecked.
Questions for deeper interaction:
- What is something you do in order to “motivate” your spouse that typically works in the exact opposite manner?
- Write out your values. Try to prioritize them in order of importance to you.
- Ask your spouse to do the same.
- Now, compile a shared values list.
- Now compile a list of competing values based on an examination of your life.