This chapter covers our values. It explains how our expectations can often run unchecked.

Questions for deeper interaction:

1. What is something you do in order to “motivate” your spouse that typically works in the exact opposite manner?
2. Write out your values. Try to prioritize them in order of importance to you.
3. Ask your spouse to do the same.
4. Now, compile a shared values list.
5. Now compile a list of competing values based on an examination of your life.