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Chapter 3: The Power of Relational Equity

This chapter deals with putting energy and effort into cultivating the relationship.

Questions for deeper interaction:

  1. In what ways, do you try to manipulate your spouse.
  2. If you’re daring, ask your partner how they feel you try to manipulate them.
  3. What is a difference between you and your spouse that celebrated before you were married and lament now?
  4. Set some time aside to sit down with your partner and ask these questions, “What can I do to build equity into our relationship? What are the things I could do that help you know I love you and value our relationship?
© Joe Martino

Chapter Guides

  • 01. What If
  • 02. Emotional Security is the Key
  • 03. The Power of Relational Equity
  • 04. The Key to Everything You Want in a Healthy Relationship.
  • 05: Expectations, Values, and Priorities
  • 06: Actions and Consequences
  • 07: How Do We Form Our Belief System?
  • 08: Conflict Is Your Best Friend - Emotionally Secure Couple
  • 09: Who or What Is Driving Your Bus?
  • 10: It's the Story We Are Telling
  • 11: The Three Core Questions
  • 12: Four Emotional Hazards
  • 13. How Do We Fix It?
  • 14. What Is Communication?
  • 15. Utilizing the ABCs of Good Communication
  • 16. The Mirror Method
  • 17. The Six Rules of Good Communication (#1-3 of BADFIT)
  • 18. The Six Rules (#4-6 of BADFIT)
  • 19. Building Emotional Security beyond Words

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