This chapter deals with putting energy and effort into cultivating the relationship.

Questions for deeper interaction:

1. In what ways, do you try to manipulate your spouse.
2. If you’re daring, ask your partner how they feel you try to manipulate them.
3. What is a difference between you and your spouse that celebrated before you were married and lament now?
4. Set some time aside to sit down with your partner and ask these questions, “What can I do to build equity into our relationship? What are the things I could do that help you know I love you and value our relationship?