There always has to be a win. There has to be a way we can move forward, or we will lose hope and fall into despair.
Questions for deeper interaction:
- How good are you at expressing what you want vs. not saying what you don’t want?
- If you didn’t already, take a moment and write out what you want for your relationship. How many things on your list are things that you don’t want versus things that you do want?
- Do the things that you want meet the three criteria listed above?