• About the Author
  • Study Questions
  • About the book
  • What to do after a fight
  • Communication Sheet
  • Mirror Method
  • ABC Method
  • Downloads
  • Buy the Book
About the Author Study Questions About the book What to do after a fight Communication Sheet Mirror Method ABC Method Downloads Buy the Book

Chapter 18: The Six Rules (#4-6 of BADFIT)

This chapter puts the finishing touches on becoming a better listener, which helps us to be the best communicators.

Questions for deeper interaction:

  1. How often does exaggeration creep into your arguments with your spouse? Can the two of you develop a plan to call them out?
  2. Of these three rules, which do you think will come most naturally to you?
  3. Which do you think you will struggle with the most?
  4. How do you feel about the statement that words are actions in a relationship?
© Joe Martino

Chapter Guides

  • 01. What If
  • 02. Emotional Security is the Key
  • 03. The Power of Relational Equity
  • 04. The Key to Everything You Want in a Healthy Relationship.
  • 05: Expectations, Values, and Priorities
  • 06: Actions and Consequences
  • 07: How Do We Form Our Belief System?
  • 08: Conflict Is Your Best Friend - Emotionally Secure Couple
  • 09: Who or What Is Driving Your Bus?
  • 10: It's the Story We Are Telling
  • 11: The Three Core Questions
  • 12: Four Emotional Hazards
  • 13. How Do We Fix It?
  • 14. What Is Communication?
  • 15. Utilizing the ABCs of Good Communication
  • 16. The Mirror Method
  • 17. The Six Rules of Good Communication (#1-3 of BADFIT)
  • 18. The Six Rules (#4-6 of BADFIT)
  • 19. Building Emotional Security beyond Words

Search

  • Joe Martino
Top