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Chapter 9: Who or What Is Driving Your Bus?

Our bus drivers can be so subtle. They can be almost incognito.

 

Questions for deeper interaction:

  1. Ask yourself the following questions from the chapter:What am I most afraid of in my relationship?
    1. What is my spouse most afraid of in our relationship?
    2. What do I want most out of my relationship with my spouse?
    3. What does my spouse want the most out of our relationship?
  2. How do you feel about the statement that trust has to be given, it is not earned?
  3. How much do you think Guilt, Shame and Fear play a role in your relationship?
  4. How much do you see Love, Trust and Respect playing a role in your relationship?
  5. What is the biggest driver out of the six for you, personally?
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Chapter Guides

  • 01. What If
  • 02. Emotional Security is the Key
  • 03. The Power of Relational Equity
  • 04. The Key to Everything You Want in a Healthy Relationship.
  • 05: Expectations, Values, and Priorities
  • 06: Actions and Consequences
  • 07: How Do We Form Our Belief System?
  • 08: Conflict Is Your Best Friend - Emotionally Secure Couple
  • 09: Who or What Is Driving Your Bus?
  • 10: It's the Story We Are Telling
  • 11: The Three Core Questions
  • 12: Four Emotional Hazards
  • 13. How Do We Fix It?
  • 14. What Is Communication?
  • 15. Utilizing the ABCs of Good Communication
  • 16. The Mirror Method
  • 17. The Six Rules of Good Communication (#1-3 of BADFIT)
  • 18. The Six Rules (#4-6 of BADFIT)
  • 19. Building Emotional Security beyond Words

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